What would you do in this situation?

I found my birthbrother / family last week, he was also adopted.

I went over his apartment for the first time with my boyfriend last night. I went to use his bathroom and it was discusting worse then movie theatre bathrooms. There was old toilet paper stuck to the floor that was yellow looking, brown marks in the toilet. And the worst on the toilet and seat spots of blood and urine.

My brother is 23 his gf lives there is 32 and she has 3 children, and his adopted gay brother also lives there.

I was affraid of catching some disease from his apartment. On top of that his gay brother stated that hes allergic, forgot what brought that up. But my boyfriend brought over playing cards, a brand new deck, and his brother says" my finger is bleeding for some reason , then he started picking it with my boyfriends playing cards.

What would you do in this situation? I dont want to say anything to make any feelings hurt?

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Do not visit you brother until you know it is safe to visit, not becausesomeone living there is gay because it is a health hazard. You got to think about that I know you don't want to hurt him do you want to hurt yourself? I really feel sorry for the kids. Good luck!

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If there are little kids involved in that mess, the first thing you do is call the Board of Health and report the situation.
Well why isnt his wife helping the place out. Tell your brother that his place is nasty. or clean it for him. And thats madd gross he card thing. NASTY!
Make an excuse and leave. It is just too disgusting to pretend.
umm tough one... dont go to his appartment often... and once u know him well u could bring it up... make sure no one gets mad....
bail out...tell-em ,check-ya much later